Agreed – my aunty's Italian neighbour's daughter is too, so is my mum's friend's; 1 from birth, 1 not. I think the not is worse. Were I not in a wheelchair I would be likely to enjoy the same things I do now, but said Steeleye-loving friend used to be fine.
I'd rather he still was.
Having nothing wrong & suddenly needing everything done for me would kill me.