No need to be. I love all that too, Peg. Steeleye are my fav band, still prefer that kind of thing. I always think I don't like folk until I hear it. You can't make yourself stop liking something to stop being lonely, & you can't force other people to get what you get out of it either. I find it easier to get on w/ those who like similar stuff, but if I limited my social circle to only that I'd be the loneliest woman ever.