Cats are amazing. I still miss my Oscar; he used to cuddle up to my almost-useless R side w/ a croaky "waow". I think being near me helped him w/ *his own* pain. I kept *him* warm, *he* kept me warm. It's not just men that spray! ☻ I get on much better w/ men. They aren't as bitchy. Whether I'm on/offline, I prefer to talk about shared interests etc. ½ my male relatives are the same.