Hiya!! It's a he. He's a very bitter man, like a lot of my flatmates I can see why cos they used to be OK, now they're not. Some of them are so nasty to staff/other residents you'd never believe it, simply due to staff chatting to someone else rather than them, / someone else having visitors while they don't. I've even had comments re how I'll cope when my parents (who are in their late 60s) pass away. Disgusting.
We have monthly meetings, which I'd like abolished cos I don't want to spend any more time w/ people like that than I have to. My key worker says there should be a film showing the other side, w/ bluesy soundtrack.