LOL Patsy! Well, I'm making a steak and kidney pie for us both, but he sprinkles it with tons of curry powder (can you imagine?) once the plate arrives at the table. Most maddening, but over the years I've learned to let live. It's his choice after all. It's actually Ramadan now, and he should be fasting and not drinking until sunset. But he doesn't do it any more. I never have said anything, but he feels it's very bad for the kidneys (his own, not those in the pie) and he simply prays but doesn't do the rest. We always let the other do whatever he/she thinks fit, and that way we've been v happy over the years. The world could perhaps learn from this!
Best wishes Patsy, nice to hear from you.