Hiya! I've a ? for you to chew over.
@ college, I had a friend who was always making farting noises w/ his armpit. It used to crack me up. I met him again, yrs later, @ a reunion, & to be honest I wish I'd never bothered – he cornered me to tell me how he'd lied to his gf re having cancer (he was perfectly healthy) so she'd stay w/ him.
I was really disappointed, & when/if I think of him I still see him as the young man making me laugh w/ said silly noises, & not as the nasty piece of work he actually was/is. The way I see it is I didn't know his gf/what he'd done.
In my social circle there were/are some unpredictable people (due to disability), who I am/have been warned against, only to find out we really get on. I don't think it connects w/ me that the person who I get on w/ & look forward to seeing, & the person who has done/frequently does _ ____ are 2 sides of the same person. I've been described as naïv.e
I've found a song re a certain dessert I absolutely love (dessert more so than song), said song still makes me laugh & always will, so I want to keep my copy of it. Is that strange??