Dear Wes, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Andrea and I lost a little boy who would have been 10 next May 12th. I can only tell you from experience that time is a healer.
I don't know you but you strike me as being a strong person. Spend some extra time with your wife through this troubled time, these things are especially hard on the mothers for they suffer in their coming and their going. You will draw strength from each other.
But you now have an angel on earth and one in heaven to look out for you. A special little voice in God's right ear when you need it. Den