I am in the middle of forced decluttering because I am moving again into a new flat and at the same time going through some of the remaining things of my late dad. Although it is about 18 months now since he passed away it has still been hard to finally remove everything. It would be an opportunity to do this and I suspect that my mother would not even notice that his clothing was gone, because of his poor health he was in a separate room anyway but I still feel that I need her approval for it to go. I thought it would be easier as time went by but it is as hard as ever to collect it up together and take it to somewhere where it would benefit someone else.