"What do you think fantasising means in this context?" For me, maybe going somewhere I don't want to go? Please don't get me wrong here. I have only had a sexual relationship with one woman and I was in my late 30s then. Still you can fall madly in love with your own "ideal woman" (have done that twice). The one I (biblically speaking) "knew" turned out to have a bf in prison and things got rather messy... For me, maybe a fantasy could be that first small step or something that leads to a pit you don't know how (or by that time perhaps even don't want (eg. after I was "in love") to get out of. Any of that thinking is of course just me and how I've found life.
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