I am a civilized human being, and a hunt through my posts would confirm that.
Most of my posts are answers to 'guest' questions, Very rarely do any of them reply, and almost never is a 'thank you' posted.
This is what annoys me, and I think you'll find the same opinion amongst many 'catters. Some don't even bother to search anymore.
My frustration caused me to use bold text and write an expletive.
If this means that I'm 'just an arsehole' then I'd be wary of your judgement.