In a society where so many people are having extra-marital affairs (oppsoite and same sex), where divorce is rife and second divorces even moreso (percentage wise) why is not more done for children NOW? More consideration to children should be the first and last order of things (like divorce settlements being split between how many people are involved, the house being put in legal trust for the children until they are of legal age, and the money from the settlement also being put in trust. So, if you have 3 children the settlement would be split 5 ways and not two!) Maybe that might make some think about their children, their rights and their future instead of selfishness (unless in cases of domestic violence where the settlement should go the victim and the children only!)

In poly relationships it is the unicorn who often is treated the worse eventually, when introduced later into the relationship, so legal protections should be in place for them I think.

I do not want one husband, let alone two, and yet I love men to bits emotionally and intellectually.

Each to their own... same sex or otherwise. No "marriage"... just plain simple marriage. Some need to get over that now fact of life I feel.