I never saw jeri actually telling me to "grow up" but if that is what they meant so be it. I also never threatened you. I pointed out, in FACT, that it was not a threat but there to educate you as to the real law. Not your law but the law of the land (in your case, Scotland I believe).
The thread never was about me and my replies have been in defence of it being said I am "he/she" and needing to clarify my staus. It was you who was asking for special conditions being put on my ability to take part in topics on this forum. You were and are clearly in the wrong, which I pointed out, and you may no doubt go on and act the victim because someone has dared answer you back in a way you cannot comprehend.
Anyway, whether jeri is telling me to grow up or not is for them to make clearer to me. I accepted your word earlier and said I would let it lie and yet you continue this "woe is you" because I dared answr back. Say as you will. You do anyway. Others are free to tell me themselves without you pointing it out.
Talking of disingenuity: trying to recruit moderators to your side to stick up for you will still not make what you said legal. They can shut the thread and they can ban me. The law will remain unchanged.