Tina - Kendall and I had been sending pms and emails back and forward for close on to a year when he came over to the UK. He had had a three way bypass earlier in the year and there was a long thread about that with all sorts of nice things being dais about him. On the basis that he couldn't possibly pay that many people, or fool so many, into doing that I told him he could stay with me when he came over. He thought I was a bit flaky, well, maybe so. I had no intention of getting involved as I had quite a good life over there, but once we met........