I now have a catheter. I wish i'd had it yrs ago, possibly before moving to said care home. Fantastic invention. I'm so happy w/ it. Esp. when out w/ no idea of where facilities are. Sat watching fav Morris side (Pig Dyke Molly) who i'd been wanting to see again for literally AGES w/o any problems at all. I find I still get the odd cramp, but am told I don't look so vague now. Except when i'm thinking of lore/bands etc.
Funny how those who said me having one was wrong/not needed were those who complained the loudest re doing my care. Strange that.