I have adopted children of different races and have also been a foster parent for older kids for many years. So we deal with whatever with our kids. In the locker room at the YMCA. Lots of guy talk "What did you do over the weekend Bob?"kinds of stuff> Golf, golf, golf;sailboat, sailboat, sailboat;computer, computer, computer; fixit, fixit,football, football, football:- Over to me "Seth, we didn't see you down here on Saturday...." Me " Oh,yeah, I was up in Tacoma at the beautician with my daughter, getting her hair extensions re-done." A full thirty seconds of dead air, the only sound being the showers running, before somone else picked up the guy thread again. Seth from China