As one gets older there are very many things one can't go back to. Events are gone, people you knew perhaps too. Highlights and essential activities have to change if only to cope with your own ageing.

Years ago in 'Roger's Bar', Sidmouth, I was sad when a regular couple declared they wouldn't come any more, it was getting too difficult (at their age). Tim and Kitty and Les's singarounds long left the place. I miss them but can't go back.

At every stage in your life you can only make the best of where (time and place) you are.