A long-time friend of mine was exchanging e-mails with me two years ago, and went silent. I kept sending e-mails and received nothing in response. Today I Googled my friend's name, and found her obituary. She died two years ago, one month after her last e-mail to me. We were both at university studying music together. However, she was older than I. I was only an undergraduate, and she was returning to school after raising three children. We became rather close, and her exuberant, vivacious spirit was like a tonic for me. She was Irish-American and a recovering Catholic, so to speak. She was young at heart even as her body aged. I went back and looked at her last e-mail. She had been in the hospital with serious illness, and reading between the lines I wonder if she had minimized in her e-mail just how serious it was. By this time she was old enough to have seven great-grandchildren. She had suffered badly from a series of falls as well, breaking bones. So her old suffering body was ready to go. I cannot believe that her spirit has been extinguished after burning so brightly. I have to believe that her spirit exists on another plane, as vibrant as ever. Thanks for listening. I had to tell somebody.
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