Unfortunately Helen is on the right track here. This one is a known manipulator. She directs the weekly happy hour before Tuesday dinner, and makes everyone else's business her business. No more weekly happy hours for me, I think.
I think SRS is right as well, about going after the "new kid". So it's going to be a little unpleasant but I have to set boundaries.
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