Oh Matt! I didn't know you had a new girlfriend... or an old one... I'm so out on the news! Congrats :)
It being a year since my very painful breakup, and me in a very happy new relationship, I can now look back on it with much more amusement.
Since then, I've no longer had to try and be not quite so scary for his friends. I don't have to pretend to like the mainstream life, or approve of what he's doing when I don't. I don't have to try and decipher nearly as much of his typing / handwriting. I don't stay up late at night trying to call him when he's out getting drunk instead of being home like he said he would be. And I can laugh at him and his horny depression since he broke up with his girl.
On the other hand, I miss a lot of things, too. We were great friends, and that's being a real challenge to recover. And i feel bad that he's depressed... it's just that... I'm not.