Hi Aubrie...there's a wealth of books, video/audio tapes, cd's, etc. that can help. They will be available at your local book/music store. The easiest way I've found to learn to play by ear is to take a song with which you're already familiar and transfer the melody/chords to your guitar. Also, find other musicians to play with as they well be helpful. It's not hard once you're in the habit of playing on a consistent basis. Others responding to this thread will help alot with their suggestions as well. Good luck!