Hello all,

This may sound silly, and I'm sure many are tempted to give a humorous or judgmental response, but I really am serious.

I've found I've never really met anyone going out (bars, clubs, etc.) I'm just not that type. I do try and insure I have a good time, though. Parties are a different story -- I do make friends and meet interesting people this way.

Anyway, when I'm in the audience, and a female performer is good, I usually would like to meet her. I wonder if I should say something like -- invite me to a party if there's one going on -- I'm from out of town, etc.

Actually the best approach may be to always plan some type of party after a performance, and hand out directions to those that are invited.

Well, there it is. I think I have my own answer. What has been your experience?

Jon