Oh, to clarify, I was imagining the performer inquiring about the party.

After playing I want to hang out with cool people who understand folk music, or at least love music.

Good point , Dave, about making the transition. I think I'd would actually stick with the guitar if it was "going on" at the moment.

And yes, Sharon, I too would hate to find myself in a situation that would be uncool. It sometimes is easy to guess, though, from conversation, etc.