But Alice, that is the charm and glory of this site.
People are going to be passionate and prejudiced about something. How refreshing to beat each other's brains out (metaphorically) over chord colors rather than skin colors.
Mudcatters snipe and squabble and -- sometimes -- even flame. But we all do (or should) love each other, and you're all invited to pick around my kithen table anytime. Sevenths allowed -- and, oh, what the heck, even ninths and fifths.