Little hope for her.... and at her age it would be a waste of precious resources.... she didn't worry earlier.... she shouldn't worry now.... give her some cigarettes, a gin-martini, and find a clergy....enjoy your time together....breakdown your barriers - she doesn't want to confide in you precisely because of the attitude you show towards her in this thread.....let it go!

As for YOURSELF - heart disease has a powerful hereditary correlation:

1. Lose Weight
2. Exercise More
3. Cut Fats
4. Eat Vegitables
5. Sing and Laugh

Sincerely,
Gargoyle