And just to add what Susan has said, life is what it is as we live it. And we may chose to live in in the past or future, no matter, we must live it in the present. I learned this lesson with the passing of my late wife, Judy. She chose to live every day....

Hey, we are all waiting until our bodies give out but, in the waiting, why not live....

Sorry if this sounds sobering, But it's what I learned from Judy...

Bobert