Thank you everyone...as for the bride to be...well we are talking and so hopefully will be back on track there...

as for the job...i'm looking again...basically what happened there was that I missed a day and was late another day due to my car having problems. I live outside the range of the public transport so I had no way of getting to work...well yesterday i was sitting in the lunch room and i was told by that after three weeks of wearing these black shoes that i was wearing there for three weeks..and then suddenly they decided they were athletic shoes...so they sent me home knowing it would take me 45 minutes to drive to my house and another 45 minutes back...and so I was just over an hour late and they fired me for having 2 attendance points. I'm getting tired of being pushed around by the corporations....I wouldn't mind doing some pushing back.... ;)