When my father Danny O'Connor passed away we had the ullian pipes play boolavogue, very apt as he was born to a very proud wexford family, at his funeral a women said to my amazement " that was a lovelly Danny Boy!"
comming from a musical family myself, sing the songs you are passionate about and you will sing them well, and if you don't please the audience after that, to hell with them
All the Best
Kathleen