At a certain point, folks begin to realize that there's no point in competing any longer. That the touchdown at the homecoming game really didn't matter in the grand scheme of things. That they have achieved whatever they are going to. That other folks are interesting in their own right and have their own stories to tell which might be better.

When that happens, reunions get to be interesting and even fun.

I don't visit classmates.com. If I want to get in touch with folks, I'll find them and contact them.