I would have thought that most women would think that Ralphie was good looking - he's tall and very slim, and I've always found him charming. I've been trying to find a piccie on Mudcat, but this is the only one I've come up with, and he's right at the back hiding behind a beer glass. If you want to know about his (rather awesome)musical abilities, then there's a whole thread here on the Patterson Jordan Dipper album "Flat Earth".