It sounds like you are deeply involved in what you do play and enjoy it. So is the problem that you want to play with others, "jam" with others, and can't find anybody to fit with? I'm pretty nicheless myself, started out as a dyed in the wood folkie, but have since wandered into contemporary singer-songwriter stuff, 20's, 30's stuff like Fats Waller, a little (sadly) white bread blues.... Acoustic is it for me, tho, whatever genre I wander into.
Maybe you need to find a song circle setting, where you could do what you do when your turn comes around, w/o having to fit with anybody else. If you like what you do, other people are likely to enjoy it as well. (And if you find one, let me know...i could use one myself!)