All I know is, I needed stories about Byron from the very first day after his death. I still need them. And I also know from experience, that the "stages" of grief spiral around and twist and turn in a very non-linear path for me. I am not through with one, then move on to the next. I often still feel a combination of numbness, grief, anger, sorrow, even acceptance. Let's not forget denial!
And I won't be told how to grieve by anyone, no matter how qualified.
I will keep coming to this thread, and to the Mudcat, for the wealth of love and support from the members here.