Surely, Cluin, if you love someone enough these silly things can be discussed and sorted out? I have a great belief in keeping things on the surface and talking about anything that might be getting in the way. Letting daft things (like all of those above) fester deep within you, will build up resentment like a volcano. You will be absolutely bugged by any of those every time they rear their childish little heads, until one day babooom! Up she goes.

Sal