Hi Jeri, I feel bad for you & your session with a bongo player that won't turn himself off for any reason. I sang there last time I saw you & I almost put my hand over his drum so he couldn't play while I sang, he knows I sing with my drum so if I weren't going to accompany myself my would he think that I'd want him to play on something that the drum was not appropriate for IMHO as the singer of the song. Oh well. Hope to see you soon. Barry