Animaterra, I have/had a brother with whom I made music for many years. Even though he died four years ago, our music is still 'bouncing about in the cosmos' and I'm happy to feel that we are not separated.

Isn't it interesting- I just got a flash that since death frees us from physical constraints, on the other side we are free to 'go' any and everywhere. And that includes 'visits' to people we never knew in physical life. No wonder involving other people in one's grief is so comforting. If we could only 'see', we might be very surprised at the gentle nudges given all of us from beyond.