I know, I know, I've been away. Got engaged swiftly...and then disengaged: a good lesson in how two seemingly intelligent people can fool themselves, even while they're congratulating themselves on not being foolish. No pain, still friends, and now I'm wiser...and older, since I turned 50 on January 12th. Hey, life is good! Even if it did get down to the low 60's here for a few days...