All I do is process and remember...everyone I have lost helped make ME what I am today, and so I guess they are somehow always with me. I try to look at all the other emotions their memories bring up, whether love, silliness, anger, amusement...whatever...and process THOSE until the integrated memories gradually replace the feelings of loss and sadness.

I guess nothing but time and the necessity to honor them by remembering and keeping on with keeping on will make it any easier...