Think to a time you watched little kids play. At the ages of 5 and 6, kids will be in a room with many other children and each child will be doing his/her own thing. AS and H kids never stop doing that. Thirty years later, people will wonder about the person sitting alone in the corner. We don't dislike you, we just don't know what to do. So we watch. And very often have a good time. Best party I ever went to was in Montreal. I said ten words in four hours. I really enjoyed myself. The hostess kept asking if everything was alright. I had to tell her ten times, "Fine". And I smiled each time.