Why do you think it is up to you to accept or not accept sexual arrangements not including you? No harm, no foul -- it is no business at law what people of homosexual bent do. To say that is is even MORE abhorrent than your imagined homosexual buggery. Does heterosexual buggery induce similar spasms of nausea on your part? I don't know anything about either one, but I see no reason to be so willing to impose your will on others.

As for the notion that there must be some standards, how about the standard of individual self-reliance? That's a good one!

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