Hat racks have feelings too...don't they? Maybe I am wrong about that. Is having an affair with a hat rack a form of necrophilia? This is a hard one. That's why I am in favor of leaving it up to those involved. It's too hard for me to figure on from the outside.

Unless, of course, the human in question is taking advantage, in which case something should certainly be done! I am sure no-one will disagree with me about that!! :>))

A