Six months! I'd feel unwanted. In middle age six months is more like two years, the clock ticks.Life is to be lived. If you don't want   him within hours, I'd say he was the wrong one for you. I was 38 when I had my first date with my wife 23 years ago. I knew within minutes.So did she.We still do. Lust is good, so is love, they're nature's way. Both together are heaven, but one without the other can be hell.Good luck.