Hi, Matthew,

I have not been reading as many threads as usual in the past couple of weeks, so I'm glad kat started this one. As others have said, I haven't had your experience, myself, but life & children are very important to me. I am so sorry you are having to go through this. I hope a minimal number of people will make well-meaning remarks that hurt you. Your loss is real. Feeling it & expressing it will help you get on.

love & hugs coming your way,

Barbara