B&B, if the man disappeared after this conversation, then I agree that you presented him with something he wasn't willing to wait for-a relationship based on more than just sex. In a way, it was good that he left with such immediacy, leaving you with little doubt as to his priorites. Sad that they didn't coincide with your own, but better a short sharp shock then a protracted connection to someone with entirely different ideas of what's important in a relationship of the kind you are looking for.

Kendall you keep saying what I agree with..communication is primary.

Get onto the same page first and formost..then hope for good timing... and then...fingers crossed?