I don't think anyone is going to bite on this one brucie... How about Positive things about the person standing next to you? I understand your thread, though. If we are to love others as ourselves, that means we have to start in our own heart. I find that people who are really angry and unloving usually can't stand themselves. So, if no one else is going to fess up to loving themselves, you and I know that they do. :-) And loving yourself doesn't mean that you don't see your own weaknesses and the countless times that you've fallen flat on your face, been selfish and mean-spirited. It just means that you've forgiven yourself as you forgive others... another one a them challenges... you can't forgive others very well if you're not willing to forgive yourself.

Jerry