on the subject of headaches may I say two things.

1) 20 different excuses is one mute excuse. We ain't fooled - gals - why not just say it?.

2) My ex & I reached the pinnacle of nuptual harmony on the day we both had a headache. Which would have been bliss if she hadn't gone and blown it but realising and switching tactics and trying to seduce me. I just wish I had gone along with it just to annoy her!