Don - I love that story.

My brother was a Marine, an instructor on the rifle range. He taught snipers, too. He used to say, if you think I'm good, you should meet my sister. It was true. I could out shoot my brother any day! We used to practice on empty beer cans and bottles too. Sometimes at night we would sneak to the dump and pit lamp, rats. We considered it a service to humanity. At least that was the excuse we dreamed up in case we ever got caught. We never did.

Michelle - There will always be people who will try to discredit you. It happens in the workplace all the time. Look at this as your opportunity to learn how to deal with it. One of the most valuable lessons you learn in university, is how to cope with people who try to put you down.

Have a cry but do not grieve (you haven't lost yet). Do not withdraw from the course. You have already earned your marks. In regards to this particular assignment, there are procedures if you wish to appeal. If it effects your overall mark, appeal, appeal, appeal. If you are worried about what the instructor or your partner thinks of you, let it pass or talk to them personally. Remember, its what you think of yourself that really matters.

Some of the most valuable learning experiences are the most painful but you will be stronger than ever when it is over. All things change in time.