"I think I know where this person is coming from."

You presume too much, and project your own biases and prejudices on others based upon your presumptions.

"First, if Kerry "deserves to lose" and does, we'll have four more years of Bush."

That is correct. And the Democrats should have thought about that before they shoved this wishy-washy candidate down the throats of the party, and exiled the youth vote and the grassroots of the party.