Oh Jeri. You outdid yourself!

Linn, you don't HAVE to return phone calls. Or to post here, for that matter, unless, of course, you just want to. Focus on your top priorities and don't sweat the other stuff. You are probably getting alot of "Let me know if I can do anything to help." The answer is "Wow, thanks. As a matter of fact there are a couple of things that people could help with...." (light garden chores, fielding phone calls, laundry, etc.) People really do want to help at times like this. Let them. It builds community. Like Susan said--go to bed. Sleep tight. Sweet dreams. Good night.

Janie