"Why consider that those who died weren't also "helped" by some Angel?"

...ummm....right....when you get to the next life, please ask them if they appreciated that particular brand of 'help', when they thought they were on the way to their son's wedding--etc...

Besides, I remember this old beer commercial which said. "You only go around once, so grab for all the Gusto you can get.." (Coors, I think..*grin*)...I know that they wouldn't mislead me, so I have always assumed that I DON'T get another body and a new way of being...Still, dying isn't so bad, as you say...if you have done your best with this life.