Strollin' Johnny, that is the true frustration of language. I used 'coincidence' as some others in this thread used it, in order to point out that coincidence is what my experience was not, except that I grant my need and its answer coincided.   My belief is, as Little Hawk said above, that what we call coincidence is very often not happenstance at all.

I'm not sure I have made it clear yet. You want me to have another go at it? :)