Bill and harpgirl: he is welcome to join in at any time. A lot of what he has posted is what I would consider extremely distasteful and vindictive. I personally am glad it is out in the open and people are discussing their honest feelings. If what I have said offends you, I am sorry, but I do not intend to sit back & take the crap he's been dishing out to me or others anymore. If I am found wrong by the majority, I will leave.kat